Teman, konco, Sahabat, Nawak dan artinya dalam hidup kita



kutipan chat saya bersama jeng Erlyta Novell - sahabat SMA saya- via YM tentang makna teman. salah satu teman mengungkapkan lewat status facebooknya "sampe aku wes dadi dokter kamu tetep ae g munggah2..kelasmu yo iku2 ae..gumbulanmu iku2 ae..kpn berkembang"
Shock dan kaget membaca status tersebut, prihatin sekaligus kesal. Berikut ini adalah tanggapan saya atas status tersebut, mengingat saya tidak lagi ada di friend list teman tersebut dan saya merasa tidak rugi sama sekali.

" konco iku yo segalanya, pelipur lara, sing iso dijak guyonan, sing iso gawe ngguyu nek pas aku susah, wes bersyukur pokoke duwe konco koyo kalian semua: Novel, Gandos, sokeh, devi, aak, husni, lely, ges, Roni wes kabeh pokoke. kene tetep koncoan karo konco lawas bukan berarti nggak berkembang, justru malah kita berkembang, sopo ngerti rejekine awak dewe malah teko konco, yo tah. gimana2 sing iso ngerti awak dewe iku mrk sing tau menjalani masa2 bareng awak dewe, bukan org lain sing mak bedunduk teko trs sok2 dadi konco. awak dewe ini bukannya jalan di tempat yo nawak. Ayas wes ngrasakno urip adoh teko dulur, teko wong tuwo, sing iso dijak guyup yo konco - konco lawas tah, opo maneh sing podo2 merantau adoh teko omah. duwe konco anyar juga gak berarti berkembang. awak dewe iso golek konco anyar, tapi iso nggak konco anyar iku nulungi awak dewe nek pas awak dewe susah? iso nggak konco anyar iku jujur nang awak dewe, ndi sing elek ndi sing apik? Yaopo2 pokoke konco2 jaman SMA, jaman kuliah sing tetep nyambung silaturahmi karo ayas, iku Alhamdulillah banget. pokoke tiada kesan tanpa kehadiranmu lah... hehehehe."

Jadi intinya :
Teman itu seperti jangkar yang menahan kita saat kita akan hanyut
Teman itu juga seperti pemberat yang menahan kita saat kita akan terbang terlalu tinggi
Friends are those who remind you to keep your feet on the ground even when they don't realize it.....

semoga kawan saya yg satu itu menyadari hal ini.

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